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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My answer as a woman who is dating for a little over a year on OLD: no, there is no chance to find an STD-free FWB. Men who seek for a relationship will be offended and will stray. Men who only seek sex will have infections. I bought a toy and vaginal cream, happy like a clam while dating looking for a real connection.

I don't have the time and money to waste on these arrangements take more time and medical check-ups after[/quote]

You are ridiculous. I have had 5 FWB in last few years and not one had an STI, before/during/after.

Vaginal cream? You mean lube? LOL[/quote]

No - I use an estrogen cream that my obgyn prescribed to prevent vaginal atrophy. I don’t have time to continuously look for new fwb, prescreen them for std, go through cycles of someone catching feelings, getting together, breaking it off, all the hormonal changes along the way etc. Too much hassle for a temporary D. A sex toy + prescription cream addresses the itch without all the human drama. I do have long term (6+ months) relationships.  I go for it when there is a mutual falling in love  feeling and I see the person really wants me and wants commitment. This  adds a layer of stability and I can  feel sexually safe and uninhibited with those partners. [/quote]

Continuously look for them? My current one has lasted two years thus far..... I am not sure what hormonal changes you are talking about, either. Anyway, why are you responding if you have no knowledge of finding a FWB. Who cares if you aren't interested?

OP, if you are still reading after PP derailed this,  go on Bumble and say you are looking for casual. Do the bacground check, both get tested, and have fun. [/quote]

You give your exceptional example of a mysterious fwb who is totally fine f..g you casually (couple times a month when kids schedule afford it?), is fully tested and committed to exclusivity. That is NOT fwb arrangement. You have a long distance committed  boyfriend.
People on this forum tell you multi-dating patterns that fit most men who look for casual. Most of these arrangements have expiration date. Yes, sleeping with someone then breaking up causes mental anguish and hormonal ups and downs. You no longer experience orgasms. I tend to miss the person physically after a month of continuous sex.  These are not good options for most women [/quote]

She’s probably married.[/quote]

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