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[quote=Anonymous]My husband had a relationship like this, a long-distance romance with a woman who lives in UK. They met 8 years ago through his YT channel. He and I met 6 years ago. They became close, talking many days for years, romantic/sexual conversations among many other topics. I looked the other way because didn't feel threatened by her, and value the genuine friendship. But last week he and I got in a fight and I said "Look, say what you will, but I do consider it cheating even if I'm looking the other way. I wouldn't talk romance with a man because it'd feel wrong toward you." And as soon as I made it clear that have a problem with that relationship, he ended it, within 24 hours.

So I guess he wasn't cheating on me because he only had the friendship as long as no objections from me? And I feel bad that they broke up so abruptly on my behalf after almost a decade, when I was fine with it all along and then a sudden argument between DH and I and he just goes and ends it with her to prove his loyalty to me. I'll probably email and apologize to her, she's a good friend of his and it's not fair to her.

But if was tempted with such a boyfriend, I'd 100% consider it cheating on DH, no matter if he gave permission (and he wouldn't). I don't have romantic friendship outside my marriage. No way would believing there's a "monogamous" arrangement there.
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