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[quote=Anonymous]I suggest a modest celebration of reaching a notable milestone, like a nice family dinner at a "special occasion"-type restaurant, rather than a large party will many invitees.  Obtaining a degree is an accomplishment, even if paid for by parents or granted by a less rigorous instituition.

The issue here is that the child has no job lined up, and has no plans to go to grad school.  It also sounds like the child is making little effort to find employment and expects to return hom to be supported by parents indefinitely.  That's a different situation than being posited by those bemoaning a difficult job market - not trying to find employment is the apparent issue here, not the supposed paucity of openings.

The child's lack of ambition, and stated plan to live at home home rent-free for the forseeable future is a separate issue from their graduation, and should be treated as such.  Acknowledging and celebrating graduation need not imply approval or post-grduation intentions.  [/quote]

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