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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There is nothing to celebrate if eldest DC lacks a full-time job offer and is not self-sustainable by June. I'm actually going to be deeply embarrassed and I mean that very sincerely. I'm just so fed up with the excuses and tired of being a bank to a mooch.[/quote] WOW. Nothing says "I love you with conditions" like rejecting your child's hard earned accomplishment because s/he hasn't also fulfilled your NEXT demand. Dang. You really do suck. Where is the "I love you for who you are right now" part? Where is the "I'm rooting for you and I know you will find something in time" part? Honestly, if this is how you've always been, I'm sure your kid has felt that your love/attention is very conditional and s/he really isn't that attached to you. You'll reap what you've sown. How are you going to feel when your adult child no longer has time for you? That's surely coming.[/quote]
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