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Reply to "We keep arguing about work and home responsibilities because we're both overwhelmed."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He’s putting too much on you. Tell him you will have to go part time if he doesn’t do x , y, and z and he specific. [/quote] [b]He's not putting too much on her.[/b] His job is a more-than-40-hours a week job, and so he physically cannot be there for mornings and the immediate after school tasks. That's not dumping stuff on her. That's just the realities of a job that is paying 2/3 of their household costs. If she finds doing the morning and after-aftercare routine by herself is too hard, she needs to outsource some of it. That's an easy solution. [/quote] Yes, he is. He doesn’t get to exercise in the morning if it means his partner does 100% at home. If they are both so swamped neither of them should be taking an hour a day for the gym TBH. This phase doesn’t last forever. [/quote]
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