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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Marriage is hard if you don’t marry the right person. [/quote]

[b]Who is to say who is the "right person?" [/b] What does this mean?  People change.  People change after they marry they change, stop performing etc.[/quote]

Smug morons on this board who think they have all the answers because their lives with their spouses are “easy” but for some reason they are simultaneously wildly insecure.[/quote]

Who hurt you?[/quote]

The people who respond to every marriage related problem and question with “you chose him” “I chose well” “why did you choose him” etc.  Those people hurt me.[/quote]

Same. ((Hugs PP))[/quote]

Have better judgment in who you choose for a spouse. That’s your fault and no one else’s   You hurt yourself. [/quote]

You are a terrible human.[/quote]bad judgment makes you terrible. [/quote]

Everyone shows bad judgment at least a few times in their life.  Like for example, you show bad judgment in being an anonymous jerk on the internet.  The question is, do you have any redeeming qualities to overcome that?  Doubtful.🤨 [/quote]

NP. I mean if you equate judging someone as a “jerk” on the internet to judging how you pick a spouse, I would say you do have very poor judgement. [/quote]

Being a jerk worse than picking a lousy spouse.  The former is a mistake, the latter is the product of malice.[/quote]

The “jerk” thing is subjective. Just because someone is truthful and you don’t like it doesn’t make them a jerk. 
Picking the wrong spouse is profoundly bad. 
Everyone is a jerk at times, including you. Picking a wrong spouse is for life. [/quote]

Both are subjective, actually.  Someone may believe that they picked the wrong spouse but it was the best spouse for them.  Or there could be an unintended positive outcome from their marriage, like personal growth and understanding or a child with a really positive impact on the world.

There are no benefits to writing nasty comments on the internet beyond entertainment value.  Even if the value is subjective, even if one person thinks you are being a jerk you are lowering the value of the DCUM for them and other people too.[/quote]

The nasty comments came from the ones accusing another of being a jerk. Calling someone a jerk should tell you who the jerk is. They are in fact devaluing dcum themselves with calling any one with a different viewpoint from them juvenile names. [/quote]

No, there is value in calling out the people who believe it is their God-given duty to inform others that everything bad that happens to them is their own fault, and there are a lot of those people on this website.  Those people are jerks.

If you happen to be one of those people and you don’t like it, oh well.[/quote]

Oh, well, back to you. You think it’s your god-given duty to shut down anyone who has a different view from you. You can’t and you won’t. [/quote]

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