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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I am so sorry for the pain and hurt you are going through. I was in your exact position about 10 months ago. I am the DW and DH cheated and blew up the family. It feels like the most unfair thing that the person who did this, and is seemingly walking off into the sunset with AP, can also hide behind what is right for the children. But several PPs have laid it out well. That "you" will need to be the person who focuses on what is best for the kids. My kids were 7 and 11. I spoke to two counselors who both said to keep the adult reasons for the split out of the discussion for now. To tell them that parents are having problems they currently cannot solve, are separating, and here is how their life will change or not change. That kids need to mainly know the logistics and how they are loved. I presume over time they will be old enough to understand more. It angers me so much sometimes but I vent to friends and loved ones instead. [/quote]
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