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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. Guys, I’m human. I’m confused. I literally don’t know how to date. I’ve only known marriage and I understand that I married at a relatively young age. I love my boyfriend- just saying we are not like a 99 percent match. More like 75%.

I’m not saying I want him to marry me. I just thought he held it as a possibility in his mind. I saw myself potentially marrying him, depending on how our relationship grew. I’m not nuts- I don’t want to rush into marriage. I like the idea of being married in my late 40s, which is like 7 years away. [/quote]
OP, you are a 0% match. You hope to marry again. He does not want to marry you. Break up! It can be hard to break up when things are nice and comfortable, but ultimately, you don’t want the same things.

Your age is a valid concern. The pool does shrink. That’s another good reason not to keep dating someone you know doesn’t want to get married. There is nothing wrong with hoping to be married again. Live, date, tell your circle you’d like to meet someome. Fill your life with as much positivity and joy as you can, keep your children first. Ignore the ugliness on this thread (probably one or two bored people with sock puppets) and know that it’s ok to want what you want. Strengthen your friendships and consider that it may not happen. Find a way to be ok with that.

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