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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I have read your updates.

Move on.

Your goal is marriage.

And he is saying he won't marry someone with kids? If he said, "I won't marry someone until her youngest kid is 18" that's one thing. But someone who has kids, period? It's hopeless. Move on.

And from now on, if your goal is marriage, DO NOT waste a year dating someone before having a DTR. Discuss in the first month or two what your dating and relationship goals are. personally, I have that convo before I have sex with him. I make sure we have discussed exclusivity and what we are both looking for and make clear I am not interested in dating for casual sex or relationships. I mean some guys lie but a lot don't. Have that convo in the first few months of dating.

ALso, you mentioned cultural differences. That's a pain.

Tell him you need to date other people because you are looking for a serious relationship that has the potential to lead to marriage. Then do NOT have sex with him anymore.

If he misses you, he can always come back and express more serious intentions. Though don't let him waster too much time. A year is enough.

Date others.[/quote]

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