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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did you ever ask your daughter if she wanted a ride home from Aunt? It seems like you're answering for her without having asked if she would like that.[/quote]

Irrelevant. The issue isn’t whether DD wanted a ride (she didn’t), it’s that SIL ignored me when I told her to not go to DD’s school. If I had answered for DD the situation would still be the same. [/quote]

You don't know she didn't when not even asked. You know OP didn't ask. [/quote]

Sorry that was me (OP). Daughter didn’t want a ride. I did ask. [/quote]

Then say that. Because you weren't very clear. She doesn't want Aunt to pick her up, not all the other nonsense about wanting to walk home alone. I'd much rather my daughter have a ride than walk home alone when she has other options, but you do you.[/quote]
DP, she is not your daughter and if her parents are ok with her walking home alone then it’s not up to you.[/quote]

Cool, but OP is the one asking advice so she's going to get advice.[/quote]

NP. You didn't give advice - you stated your opinion of whether OP should have wanted SIL to pick her daughter up - again that's not advice. Who cares what you think of the decision - OP didn't ask that of the post - she's confident in her own parenting choices.[/quote]

Confident? Hardly. And everyone is stating their opinion/advice on the entire issue. It's all the same. OP asked and people answered. That you don't like the advice is completely irrelevant and derailing.[/quote]

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