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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]
How exactly is your sister supposed to respond if her daughter hasn't decided on a date?

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Umm how hard is it to say “We haven’t put down a deposit on a venue, so the date is not set in stone.” [/quote]

It's my Aunt's house there is no deposit.[/quote]

So depending on the scope of the event there might not be an actual date set. Wedding might be 4 months out.  Addresses of potential guests needed on one complete list whether a spreadsheet or doc.  This could be a really small wedding or 100 guests. Large side scope there should be contracts with deposits now on catering, tables/chairs, etc. Even a big tent.

So the lack of communication is likely due to a developing guest list.  For a wedding at a house that could exclude some relatives and  /or their children.   [/quote]

The more I reflected on it, the more it doesn't make sense. Pretty much all of my Mom's relatives except the Aunt whose house it is have not attended a family event in maybe 2-3 decades? I'd guess 1 or 2 on my Mom's side. My in laws family has a lot of addiction and dead relatives so no one functional or living there. Finally my sibling was adopted by my Dad and only ever attended one event for our Dad's side that are all on the same coast as us. Siblings kids never met their cousins. So I doubt anyone on that side is attending either. Most attendance then is the grooms family. So 6 of us for my siblings family at the most. [/quote]

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