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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's nice that she talks to you about her personal preferences- sounds like she really loves you. I'd just keep the same mantra of "whoever makes you happy works for me" and believe this...  No probing questions, listen when she talks but tell her she doesn't need to justify or explain who she dates other than reinforce that that person is respectful and good to her.  Try to stay close with her- regardless if she is gay straight or bi, the important thing is that you are connected. [/quote]

OP-thank you. this is so true . I seriously don't know why I can't wrap my head around it. I have seen multiple therapists. I am really stuck. [/quote]

Yes, you are. You stated that you preferred that she be straight and maybe it was generational. So we know where you stand there. The thing you have to decide now is whether you want and close and loving relationship with your daughter regardless of her sexuality or not. Because you aren’t going to change her sexuality. [/quote]

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