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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]i have been confused for a while by this notion that boomer parents have of like - your kids, we have zero responsibility to help.

Like - ok you CAN take that pov, but then why did you have kids if you only wanted to help them for 18 years? [/quote]

I have been very confused for a while by this notion that millennial kids are owed a support for life, and the only reason for their parents’ existence is to provide that support.  Why did you have kids if you can’t manage being a parent?  [/quote]

Multi-generational help is not a new concept. And something that’s still practiced by many traditional cultures around the world. What IS new is grandparents refusing to help out or be involved with their grandkids lives in a meaningful way.[/quote] Moving around to different places affects this considerably. Movement is much more likely now, but it has been around. My paternal grandparents (born in 1905), did not have family help because of this.  My parents (born in 1929 and 31) did not have family help because of this. My DH and I (1960 and 1964, did not have family help because of this.  My children (born 97 & 99) are unlikely to have children. [/quote]

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