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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Move to a different country and give up your citizenship.  Send checks only to coveje kids.

US divorce courts are GROSSLY unfair to men.  Period.

The faster you get out the better. Singapore speaks English everywhere.  You are literally a modern day slave who'll keep laying alimony for for.  It's slavery. [/quote]

The data on courts being unfair to men would disagree with your assertion. In general, men tend to come out of divorces okay financially, but it often tips women and children into poverty. [/quote]

Oh please, women get 'tipped into poverty' because they don't want to work or don't get jobs.

Why shouldn't it be a man's job to support an ex with alimony payments for virtually infinity to make sure she has a comfy lifestyle?  There are no guarantees in life, lol. Should I get compensated from my brokerage account bank if I lose money on the stock market after making a bad stock pick too?

Sh!t, if a court forced me into barely liveable wages because they wanted me to pay insane amounts of child support and alimony per month I'd get the hell outta Dodge and move abroad. No way would I be shackled for years living a miserable life because my ex thinks she deserves thousands per month in alimony.  It is just legalized slavery and/or indentured service. [/quote]

So you would leave your children behind and move abroad to escape supporting them?  
Or you would move your children to Singapore with you?

If you were to stay here, what is it that you want?  You want to take the kids away from their mother and have full custody so that you don’t have to pay child support?  Or you would want your kids to live in poverty half of the time or most of the time in order to pay less child support?

What is it that you want to spend your money on that’s more important than your kids?  
 [/quote]

I have no problems giving child support payments.  What I have a problem with is alimony and the expectation that I should be financially supporting an ex-spouses lifestyle. The entire concept is asinine.  The ex spouse can get a job if they need money.  It's not my responsibility to make sure my ex has a certain lifestyle threshold.

If I ever got saddled with years or permanent alimony you can sure as hell bet I'd give up my citizenship and move abroad.  I wouldn't even care if I had to work as a bus boy in a restaurant abroad....as long as I'm giving an ex spouse $0 it'd be worth it.  They can hire expensive lawyers to pick over the carcass of any social security entitlements for all I care.

I'd let the kids decide where they'd want to live - the US or Singapore.  NBD.  I'd make it well aware to them that Singapore has far better healthcare, better education, no guns, and basically no crime. Plus amazing food scenes.  I could easily sell them on moving there. [/quote]

Luckily no one would ever be dumb enough to have kids with you.  Enjoy your extended adolescence and please take your genes with you on your way out.  [/quote]

Salty cat lady mad men fight back against unfair law requiring them to fund their lifestyle.

Get a job you lazy bum. [/quote]

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