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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I remember my first invisible moment clearly. I was 40 and made eye contact with a man in my age range on the street I smiled, but he looked right through me as if I wasn't even there. Then it happened again. And again. But I'll always remember the first time. Now I'm almost 56, and I'm comfortable in my invisibility. It's shocking to me when a man (usually older, lol) seems to be checking me out. [b]I literally don't know what to do in those moments anymore. All I am thinking is please stop. I feel too exposed[/b].[/quote] I had a man stop me recently and say 'I was just noticing you. You are so beautiful' Then he walked away. Every red flag went up in my brain. I am not used to any attention anymore and it felt so foreign. Nothing came of either. I think he was just being kind.[/quote]
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