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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am naturally pretty and have to put in work to maintain my appearance at my age. I am mid 40s. I get hit on by men 20s-50s. Women who are attractive still have to put in work. OP: you have to figure out how to maximize your attractiveness. And put in a lot of effort. Still, you may have to accept you still may not be able to get the man with the level of attractiveness that you want. [/quote]

NP. Could you give examples of the things you do? I’m not doing anything at the moment and it shows.[/quote]

When I turned 40, I upped my skincare routine. I started using a serum and moisturizer with more anti-aging ingredients. I watch a youtube influencer who is great (her channel is called Hot and Flashy...she is in her 60s and looks late 40s. She is stunning and has a lot of advice)
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I exercise regularly. I also try to get at least 10,000 steps a day. (I am pretty toned...I have had two kids. A massuesse was surprised and assumed I have not had kids...my stomach is flat...I did have diastatis recti for 3 years, but did physical therapy). I should lift weights but keep putting it off...I know I need to start doing that, too.

I sleep 9 hours a night.

I color my hair; highlights.

I only have about 3 alcoholic drinks a month.

I eat very little meat and a lot of vegetables (I could use more protein).

I rarely eat sugar (they can make wrinkles worse...I really don't have wrinkles yet).

I did not wear makeup hardly at all under 40. Since 40, I always wear foundation and mascara at least.

I have worn SPF every day since I was 14.

Wear the right size bra. It makes you look so much better. Get fitted properly at Nordstrom.

Drink enough water...it keeps your skin hydrated.

Have a few favorite go-to outfits. I am mostly casual, but I do have a few pieces I wear over and over again that look good so I have something that is flattering to wear...you don't need to spend a fortune.[/quote]

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