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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why men's happiness isn't considered as valuable?[/quote]

Only women, children, and dogs are unconditionally loved.  Men have to show what they are worth. That's why most men these days are refusing to get married.  There's really no upside for a man.  There really isn't.[/quote]

Women are unconditionally loved? By whom? Their mothers? Men fall out of love with their wives every day.[/quote]

Seriously! If women were unconditionally loved, this thread's topic wouldn't exist.[/quote]

I am a woman and the only time I've ever felt unconditionally loved is by my own child. My parents definitely didn't love me unconditionally -- their love was the most conditional of all and I failed the conditions, so...

My DH was/is unconditionally loved by his parents. So was/is his brother. They've never had to earn their parents love and I envy them that.

Neither my DH nor I love each other unconditionally. We have a partnership and it only works if we both participate. I don't think it's reasonable to expect unconditional love from your marital partner, because everyone has things that, if their partner did or didn't do them, would be a deal breaker. Like if my DH hit me, I'd stop loving him, and I think the same is true for him.

We definitely love our child unconditionally. I really think this is the duty of parents (I would do it even if it wasn't 'my duty, but I think it's essential and that you should not have children unless you can love them without condition -- my parents screwed me up a lot doing what they did).[/quote]

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