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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Regular introverted (INFP) guy here who is happily married to a really hot woman.  Dating was weird for me.  It was like a famine or feast. I couldn’t get a single date for 9 months and then its like attractive women just took an interest in me all at once - and oddly enough it was after I got laid off and didn’t have a job.

Some things I noticed:

1. Hot women beget hot women. This is so random but its like you’re instantly more attractive when a woman sees you with another hot woman. There was this period where every time I saw this person out I happened to be with a different attractive date. We’d known each other a long time and its fair to say that prior this window of time she had less than zero interest in me.  This all changed after she’d seen me out with dates.  I think this also kinda figured into my wife falling for me as well.

2. Being the best version of yourself helps.  Always stay fit (don’t make it your personality), have a stylish haircut and dress with a sense of style.

3. Be yourself unapologetically.  Always treat everyone around you with kindness and dignity but treat yourself with the same respect.  In other words, whoever you are be confident in it.

4. Be driven for self growth and improvement in as many areas of your life as possible - education (even just reading), career, physical fitness, volunteer work, etc.

5. Learn to appreciate people for who they are and enjoy interactions.  As an introvert this was a tough one for me.   It starts with just saying hello and being nice to people randomly.  You learn to interact with people you don’t have an interest in and it helps make opening conversation with women you don’t like more natural.

6. Rejection happens. Even to the best looking guys - over and over and over. Don’t take it too personally.

7. Don’t be cheap or complain about the price of anything, ever.  Lol.

8. Be funny.  Introverts often seem to have a grear sense of humor but no one knows this until they get to know them.  Move your sense of humor more towards the surface.

Dating has probably changed a lot since I was single. However, I suspect all of the above still holds true.[/quote]

This is so true. I am an introvert and you just described me. I got lucky by meeting my fiancé on OLD otherwise in real life I wouldn’t have had the same luck. I won’t ever approach a woman in public I just don’t have that confidence. So I’ll make sure to keep my fiancé engaged and happy because I don’t want to go back to that process of finding a partner lol.[/quote]

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