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[quote=Anonymous]My spouse leaves cabinet doors and kitchen drawers open.  He tried meds but I frankly hated them because he seemed like a zombie and we never tried adjusting them.

So we have weekly maids despite our modest house, most bills on autopsy, I do the taxes (fined once.)   We try to avoid clutter because we lose track of things very easily.  We have a laundry basket of socks that we never match.  Forget and miss piano lessons once a month or so.

We avoid spending money so that masks us not really managing it.  4-5 different accounts that have just accumulated over the years and we’ve never bothered fixing.  If we had identity theft we’d be screwed.

It’s a miracle we have three happy healthy kids.  Ok not a miracle, Dh has good salary due to a very technical niche job and we spend very conservatively so that helps.  We try to keep things stupid simple like buying further out near good public schools on one income.  We are definitely not typical dc bethesda strivers even though our degrees are advanced and most of our friends went this route.  Our kids will therefore miss out on some opportunities no doubt.  We would crack without the extra cushion of time and money.  [/quote]

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