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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I doubt I'm the only person or the only guy in the world that's always had a lifelong hatred or resentment towards this. Guys always being expected to make the first move and ask the girl out, be the initiators,or they say, men court women, etc.

What is the origin behind that you think?

It's probably the main thing or the number one thing I've always hated about being born the male gender, it's like why can't women go after men too right?

There are other things I resent about it to but I don't want to get too much deep into it but I might answer it as I reply to comments.

When people say "that's the way it is", makes me more mad and angry and only adds fuel to fire towards my resentment.

Some people say it's not always like this, and that the world is slowly changing about this.

But I mostly doubt and [b]part of me thinks that it'll be this way for all eternity.[/b]
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Then nut up. This is the game, such as it is, as you have acknowledged so play or sit on the sidelines but this whining is unattractive. [/quote]

Women go after men ALL the time. Apparently they’re just not going after you.[/quote]

You have to either be extremely attractive or extremely lucky to have a woman make the first move on you as a guy. If you’re an average dude and never ask a woman out in your entire life, there’s probably a 99% chance you’ll die a virgin. Of course with hot guys it’s different.

I’m pretty average and didn’t overcome my fear of asking women out until mid 20’s, and I was a virgin until then. Since I started dating I’ve been with over a dozen (I had to make the first move every time). I felt invisible to women and still do unless I go out of my way to get their attention. That’s life for most of us men.[/quote]

Dude, you are me. My dating life picked up late 20s. Learned that once you earn an MBA from a good school, women find you more attractive.[/quote]

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