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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is my dh.  He has adhd and takes every piece of advice or question as a personal attack.  He lashed out and unloads, realizes he is wrong, but then never apologizes and just acts like everything is okay the next morning.  I have learned to stop engaging him when he gets like that.  If I don't engage with him, it doesn't escalate.[/quote]

Yep +1

Sounds like my DH. Don’t engage. [/quote]

The kids and I stopped engage with moody adhd/asd spouse.  They were a work addict too and added more travel to their schedule, which they could not handle. This morphed into a midlife crisis where they blamed us for everything and for ignoring them, and [b]now they threaten divorce every weekend. 
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Zero ability to self reflect. [/quote]

So I wouldn't say your method worked, correct? I mean, unless this was the result you were going for. Just saying, ignoring it doesn't seem to have fixed the problem at all, so it seems odd that you'd be offering that advice.[/quote]

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