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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Who should control the frequency of a married couple's sex life?

1) The husband.
2) The wife
3) The one who wants sex most
4) The one who wants sex least
5) Other?[/quote]

I'm going to go out on a limb and say that neither partner "controls" sex. [/quote]

This. The couple should discuss it and figure out where both parties stand and how to make it work together. Revisit as needed if circumstances (health, other stressors) change.  [/quote]

Him: "I want sex."
Her: "I don't want sex."
Him: "I want sex because it's healthy and it's what married people do." 
Her: "I don't want sex because I don't feel sexy." 
Him: "You look sexy." 
Her: "Maybe if you did lots of chores, took me out, did a bunch of stuff I think needs done for the kids." 
Him: [Does stuff]
Her: "Hmm, nope, still don't want sex." 
Him: "I still want sex."

End result: He did a bunch of stuff she wanted done and they still didn't have sex. So the person who wants sex the least has an incredible amount of leverage. 
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This about sums it up.[/quote]

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