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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I went out on a second date with a woman yesterday . First date was good. Second date conversation was great. At dinner she didn’t eat much of her food, I assumed maybe she didn’t like it. We tasted each others dishes and I liked hers. Since she didn’t eat much I asked if I could have more, and she said sure. Today she texts to smash she’s no longer interested. Since the convos been awesome I asked why, and she said cause I ate her food! I pointed she didn’t eat much and that I asked and she said ok. She said she wasn’t hungry but wanted to take it to go. Am I a jerk?[/quote]

It's pretty early in the game to be finishing her plate for her because you like her order better than yours.  That's married couple vibes.  You're right that she said yes, but you really shouldn't have asked to eat the rest of her food, although I think that asking for a taste is fine.  You're not a jerk but you didn't pick up on the fact that she was not actually comfortable with your pushiness and that's what she's responding to.  If you're sitting directly across from her, one-on-one, and can't pick up on the vibe souring then it must have been a really good plate you were polishing off.[/quote]

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