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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I went out on a second date with a woman yesterday . First date was good. Second date conversation was great. At dinner she didn’t eat much of her food, I assumed maybe she didn’t like it. We tasted each others dishes and I liked hers. Since she didn’t eat much I asked if I could have more, and she said sure. Today she texts to smash she’s no longer interested. Since the convos been awesome I asked why, and she said cause I ate her food! I pointed she didn’t eat much and that I asked and she said ok. She said she wasn’t hungry but wanted to take it to go. Am I a jerk?[/quote]

1. Never eat your date's food unless you have been dating for a while.
2. Never do that on a SECOND date.
3. Yes, she overrated.  [b]But, she's only using that as an excuse because she really doesn't like you.  If she liked you she would not care at all. [/b] It's just an easy excuse to exit the date with you.

Move on.[/quote]

100% agree with this.

If she was really into you, she wouldn't give two sh#ts if you ate her meal. She would think it's really cute and tell her girlfriends all about how you cleaned her plate and then had a wonderful drink at the next spot after dinner.

The fact of the matter is that she wasn't into you going into the 2nd date. She should have never wasted your time by agreeing to a 2nd date, but it's probably important to her self-worth that she feels "desired" and makes it appear that she's "high value" to her girlfriends. In her view, the worst situation is for her to have no dates at all because then she doesn't feel like she has value.

You dodged such a big bullet with this woman. I guarantee she would be a nonstop headache. [/quote]

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