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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have been dating men and I found found some can be weird around food and sharing food. 40s men.

One guy told me (who I dated for months) that I had to share with him—before we even ordered —if I planned to try his food. This was his preference.  He said that it would help him order enough.  I found out this preference about after he made a big deal about my trying off his plate.

I asked him about it at the next dinner date. We had about two discussions about this topic over a couple of weeks. It ultimately didn’t work out. The guy was weird on other things too.  —a bit nitpicky.

listen to advice above.  it’s sound [/quote]

This is not weird. I don’t share. I have recovered from an eating disorder and when I go to a restaurant I have usually selected my meal from the online menu in advance and planned my day around it. I do this so I can chat and seem relaxed and stress free at the restaurant and not hold up the group while I decide. Because I have decided in advance what and how much I will eat, I don’t want to eat other foods or share mine. My husband’s family cuts everything into pieces and nibbles nibbles all of it. One pastry will be tasted by 8 people. I don’t want 16 nibbles of various dishes. I want to enjoy the dish I selected, unmolested by reaching forks! If I decide I will eat a pastry, I want to fully enjoy the whole pastry and not smash the flaky crust to pieces cutting into bits to share. [/quote]

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