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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was recently out at dinner with my DH and several couple friends. We were talking about a trip overseas DH and I had made last year and some ex pats we met out one night. When DH mentioned how stunning and sultry one of the women we met was, a woman at the table got kind of big eyes like she was shocked and disgusted he would say that.

I’m not ok with her reaction, I felt like she was really judging my DH unfairly and like this could come back to bite DH and/or me if he’s going to be potentially painted as some creep or womanizer. [b]I am not sure if I should say something to her [/b]or just distance myself just in case?[/quote]

Like what?! Oh don't worry, my husband isn't creepy? She's allowed to have whatever reaction she wants to what your husband said. This isn't a story she's hearing about third hand, she was there! There are many things wrong with this scenario. You *think* you know how this woman felt, but you don't. You are *sure* that your husband didn't say something creepy, when in reality people could take it that way. You *feel* like this woman was judging your husband for something he said...which she has every right to do. You are being very defensive about your husband, almost to the point that it seems like he says stuff like this often and you're concerned about it or someone has said something to you before.

I'm not a prude and I don't think I'd react much to what your husband said, but the fact that you are so upset with this woman's reaction is very odd. Absolutely do not say anything about it, it would only make things worse. Your husband has to live with the consequences of people's reactions to his words. That's called life. [/quote]

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