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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Even if one [date] results in sex that doesn’t guarantee that the man stops pursuing [others].  [/quote]

Men have time constraints and learn what feels right.  Before the first date, women are legitimately concerned about safety and poseurs.  But when the man shows up, is not a serial killer, and matches his profile, then the date turns into a two-way audition.  I walked out on first dates and declined second dates when women were difficult. Avoiding "excessive communication" and having multiple "pleasant" dates, WTF?  I don't shower, shave, and flush my Tinder pipeline to exchange pleasantries.  Sex is neither necessary nor sufficient to continue exploring a relationship.  But playing games and withholding communication is unacceptable.   If you treat a prince like a frog, then he will probably jump away.[/quote]

Harsh but probably something OP needs to hear. I do wonder if she’s actually playing games though. What seems more likely is that she is just a reserved person for whom the online dating world doesn’t always work well. Or (more likely) she actually wasn’t attracted to this guy at all, but believes she needs to go through all the paces because that’s just what one does. Either way, my advice to OP is to get more assertive about what SHE actually wants. [/quote]

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