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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sex positivity written on a man's profile in a dating site conveys to me that he is interested in a wide variety of sex acts and has his own kinks and desires high frequency (which is fine) but will label you as "not sex positive" if you do not agree to his tastes and frequency (which is not fine). For me this is a kind of "coercive control" that is often part of abusive relationships. I have met a number of men who are into some version of non-monogamy, BDSM, etc. who use the label "frigid" for partners or potential partners who express a lack of interest in those activities. That kind of labelling creates a kind of not-truly-consensual quality to the professed "sex positivity", IME.[/quote] OP here, YES about the labels, definitely a type.[/quote]
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