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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My SIL is immature and spoiled. DH and I have been together since the end of our senior year in college. I can’t say I have a friendship with SIL even after being with my husband for 30 years, [b]which probably has something to do with her emotional immaturity which leads to some annoyingly self-centered behavior. [/b]It’s like dealing with a perpetual stranger, albeit a demanding one. SIL getting married for the first time next year at age 49. That should tell you all you need to know.[/quote]

DP here.  Have to agree - the family feeds into it (enables SIL's behavior), then you come along and wonder about her behavior, and she gets mad at you for noticing. LOL. [/quote]

My parents went through this decades ago and it got so ugly. One of my dad’s sisters- the family golden child- hated my mom from the get-go. My mother got her number real quick. The woman was a narcissist and went nuts when mommy and daddy weren’t focused solely on her. My father’s parents couldn’t stand to see the golden child ignored and upset, so they started demanding that my dad visit them without his wife and kids. The result? Decades of estrangement. The woman pretty much torpedoed our ties to that side of the family, though I also blame my father’s parents for being so weak and letting it happen instead of telling their daughter to grow up already. [/quote]

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