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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP my DH has done this too, more than once, and not even drunk. I'm going to be honest, I don't quite see it as rape.  I truly believe he felt that I would get into it if he kept going, because husbands definitely know that there are times that their wives are not into it but they changed once things get going.  On these occasions, I would definitely be saying no and pushing him away,, and he just kept going. I didn't get into it, and I did just lay there and feel gross afterwards.  But sometimes I haven't been in the mood, and he has initiated things and then I have gotten into it. So it's complicated.  I don't feel traumatized by this or even really very bothered by it.  I guess posters will say that I am suppressing feelings but I don't think that I am, I think it's just complicated.  I can guarantee you that if a stranger did this I would feel completely differently  [/quote]I'll offer a dissenting opinion and say this was not rape.  You do need to make him face up to it but, this was a husband being coercive.  And it's often the case that a women will get into it where at first she didn't want it.  You want the guy do do prison time for that?[/quote]

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