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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I spent a decade working for various tech companies. Some of the companies I worked at had a handful of psychologists who were paired with software engineers to build products that will the consumer engaged and endlessly scrawling. Unfortunately, for those who are not yet aware these dating Apps primary purpose is to keep you online as long as possible and not necessarily to help you select the perfect match. And this behavior is inline with Tech bros who create these products. These Apps are a mirror image of their lives and how they want to live it. These guys just want to hook up, monogamy is not their preference.[/quote]

The Apps are like shopping on Amazon. You keep scrolling until you find the perfect or near perfect product. The buyers are the women and the men are the consumers. It is very easy to “dream” for the ideal person when all you have to do is pick up your phone and endlessly wife left or right. We are using people as characters in a game. Humans are not perfect. We need to get back to our senses. Of course OP did not say she was looking for the perfect guy. But the ideal match in her mind may not necessarily be realistic. The apps give the impression that such guys exist.[/quote]

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