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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OK, so long story short, your instinct to post in the relationships forum instead of home improvement was correct. It's not about the kitchen. Your relationship has resentment. You feel unseen/disrespected. You have a major gap in your financial values. Your love language is possibly gifts and his is not. Go to therapy alone first by the way to unpack your stuff around all of this. Then go together. [/quote] Oh and a relationship with these kinds of precarious factors simmering under the surface is exactly one where you should not do a home remodel until you are a way better place. Remodels are hard on even happy marriages equally on board with remodeling. Just like having a baby will not save a marriage and will make a rocky marriage way worse. [/quote]
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