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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. When really pressed he admits we can “afford it” but states that it’s not something he values. [b]When I point out that I value it and my feelings should matter too, he doesn’t really have anything to say to that.[/b] And that’s what hurts I think. It’s like how people say the no vote always wins. And he is almost always the no vote. It’s maddening. [/quote] And the you say “I need a response to that. If you can’t give me one, then we need marriage counseling. Either we talk clearly about why your opinion carries more weight than mine, or I will start calling therapists tomorrow.” [i]And then you stick to it[/i]. You don’t move on, let it drop, blow over, etc. The ball is in your court and it’s your responsibility to make that appointment. Do it. [/quote]
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