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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, "Do I talk about my discomfort? He does not know that at this point I love him. Or just end it?"

Are you kidding me?  This is a person you think you might be in love with, and you have not had this conversation.

I'm a man, and I can tell you: men cannot read your mind.   These people who are telling you to break up with him immediately are fools.  Don't sabotage things for no good reason.

Have a reasonable, adult conversation with the man.  Then report back to us after that conversation.[/quote]

Thanks PP. I just want to point out that I have communicated about the label issue bothering me twice. I just have not communicated that I love him. It kinda feels like, what's the point? I've said this bothers me and nothing has changed.[/quote]
What is his response when you bring it up?[/quote]

He makes the label into a big deal. Starts talking about living together and how his finances are not solid right now. I've explained that I am not ready nor asking to commit to living together. That I see bf/gf as a step before more serious commitments like living together, and that maybe things end before escalating to living together and that's ok too. But it's like he just puts all this pressure on himself to commit to happily ever after. [/quote]

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