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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s the financial instability that is a major red flag for me, especially since he’s 47.

That, combined with his not being willing to call you his girlfriend. I understand not wanting to use labels, but also after 6 months and the relationship isn’t exclusive, seems like the label is kind of de facto. Why the resistance? What’s the label have to do with financial instability?

OP, I get it that you have a strong connection with this guy, but it sounds like he is not going to be able to give you any kind of security - financial or otherwise. I think it’s time to move on. [/quote]

+100, exactly what PP said. If he doesn’t want to take you off the market, so to speak, by even saying you are bf/gf, I don’t see this ending well.[/quote]

+1000. A man who is into you sees you as beautiful, valuable, and desirable to other men. He isn't going to let you get snatched up by someone else. Doesn't matter about his age or situation. Six months is more than enough time for him to lock things down and he's chosen not to. Take the hint, OP. Tell him that you are going to pursue your priorities and wish him luck. And in the future, don't introduce your child to someone until their actions, words, and plans are oriented around your shared future. [/quote]

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