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[quote=Anonymous]His fear is one or both of the following: 1) She will limit my choices in the future (not necessarily or primarily sexual but career, geographic, hobbies, friendships) AND/OR 2) I’m not good enough and she will eventually find out and dump me. If the only thing that bothers you is the lack of labels, and you actually love the person (and I mean love, regardless of what you are getting out of it), I’d be hesitant to end things. If there are other issues you’re not telling us (or admitting to yourself), then perhaps it’s worth dumping him. I would highly recommended talking this out with a skilled and patient therapist. There is nothing wrong with wanting explicit commitment, communicating that and setting a timeline. But you have fallen in love with a commitment phone, which does make things difficult.[/quote]
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