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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I read it takes half the length of the relationship. I found that to be close. Took me a bit longer. [/quote] This rings true for me as well. I’m almost at 6 years and just starting to feel better. It’s taken longer because post divorce abuse is real and it’s done a number on me. When you’re unable to separate from them- even after the trauma- and they prolong it by keeping you in court for years on end it is like a scab that gets picked daily. It’s exhausting trying to heal from it while knowing the same person who destroyed every shred of sense that you had is now obsessed with destroying you while acting like a victim. The disconnect is so deep it’s actually physically rattling. I had no idea how much work it would take. Highly recommend ketamine therapy. It was my final game changer is breaking the hurt and the trauma bond . [/quote] Can you say more about the ketamine therapy? Did it break the circular Sparling thought pattern? How many times did you do it? From what I read it’s like a car wash for your brain. [/quote]
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