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[quote=Anonymous]we are older parents and not wealthy, although doing fine. Our first priority is college--we are hoping both kids go to state schools, but we will see if we can make private work, through a combo of funds and loans, we will see. After that, we hope to be able to give each child 20-30k which they can use as they wish--wedding, deposit on home, etc. I think the biggest gift is probably if we figure out our long term care issues--where will we live, what will we put into place , etc. I dont want my kids burdened emotionally or financially with our care. both DH and I are in this role with our parents (and theirp arents all died young so they never did this)...I do not want my kids in their 30s and40s to be spending their time and money worried about us. So that's probably the best gift you can give a child. [/quote]
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