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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s bizarre how defensive people are about this. Any mental health professional will tell you that OP’s version of childhood beats daycare from 3 months, extended day, organized activities every weekend and on and on. It’s not about optimization. It’s about giving your kids and their nervous systems the best chance amidst a youth mental health crisis. It’s about resisting all the commercialism and trends. Sad that this is considered some sort of fancy or condescending perspective. It’s like the people who think organic food is pretentious. All food should be organic or at least not hyper processed. I guess it makes people who overschedule their kids and feed them junk feel better. At least we’re not pretentious![/quote] Your mental health provider sucks. A child is best off with a loving parent or parents who support their needs. Being scheduled for most kids is a good thing as structure, routine and being able to explore your interests is positive in terms of child development. For some kids, it's far better to be in day care than at home depending on your home life. Not all parents enjoy or want to do that day to day parenting. Just like OP. They don't want to be bothered so they justify free range and don't care if their kids have interests and may benefit from classes or outside teaching.[/quote]
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