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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm sorry, OP. I think you confront her on it. Tell her you love her but the story doesn't sound right and that if you are expected to parent in the form if paying hospital bills and college tuition, you should be consulted. Moreover, as a parent who has been around and who loves her, you should especially if there is a situation that involves police. If this was alcohol poisoning, did she really "seek care?" The cases I know, the person is too incapacitated to choose care, and the friends dump them at the ER, no? Or call 911. I think all the people worried she won't seek care are kind of missing the point if she is manipulating the situation. [b]DD will look at her as a blank check [/b]with some of the advice here, and that will not help OP guide her. Hang in there, OP. I think it's fair to have expectations and for DD to experience repercussions of her actions, especially if she refuses your help, but keep showing the love too.[/quote] I want my children to see me as a blank check when it comes to medical care. I don't want them to delay seeking medical care -- especially emergency or mental health care -- over concerns about whether I will pay $120.[/quote]
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