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[quote=Anonymous]OP, your DH is likely ASD + ADD himself. Resenting that is not going to "fix" him any more than you will "fix" your son, no matter what you do. Stop talking about feelings and start lining up support. Outsource all household tasks for now, get a housekeeper. Get a SN AP or ABA therapist or ??? where you are to work with DS and take him to appointments. Get medication to manage your anxiety. I've been in exactly your shoes and that is what was needed. It also greatly benefited my parenting. And drop the rope re: "fixing" DS, ASD is not "fixable." See a financial planner and set up a special needs trust. Take a deep breath. [/quote]
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