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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You get up and leave the room, the house, the restaurant.

And then you explain your boundaries.

And if they are crossed again, you leave. No bluffing[/quote]

OP has already threatened to leave and husbsnd encouraged her to do so. What now?[/quote]

This is the “you teach people how to treat you” poster. There is no action OP can take now to rectify this. The situation is already too far gone. I agree with the poster above that said you set boundaries, and if they are crossed, you need to be gone. OP indicated her boundaries but she never enforced them. She had one shot and one shot only on this. She needed to be gone when he pulled this garbage the second time. But now he’s doing it for the many hundredth, so one can see why this is beyond the point of no return.

I’ve been there, OP. I really have. It’s not your fault he’s doing this, it was HIS decision to cross your boundary after you laid it out. But it’s YOUR responsibility to decide whether you’re going to do anything about the hurt he is causing. If you stay, stay with the knowledge and acceptance that the respect is gone. But it was likely was never there in the first place.

I hope you find your way. There’s a great book out there called “Why Men Love Bi&$%*s.” It has a lot of really, really valuable advice. Nothing changed for me in my love life until I really took the concepts to heart. Unfortunately, it’s too late to start implementing them with your husband. But it’s not too late with the next man. [/quote]

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