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[quote=Anonymous]OP your idea that traveling to your in laws every holiday will mean that your children when grown will feel obligated to spend every holiday with you is really off base. 1. Whether your kids spend every holiday you is dependent on your adult relationship with them, logistics, and who they marry. Do not buy into the boomer manipulation that if you don’t do what boomers want then your kids will never do what you want. People will do what works for them and good people don’t expect visits out of obligation. 2. If you spend the next 10-15-20 years being hosted by someone else for every holiday then why would kids have any nostalgia or connection to traveling to you for holidays? Are you planning on starting hosting and getting all the stuff when they are adults? Are you expecting them to host you? [/quote]
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