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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, does your conscience prick you at all about potentially blowing up someone else’s family? Doing this your own doesn’t seem to be a deterrent, but the other guy has a wife and kids. Frankly, it sounds like you want the endorphin rush and are rewriting history a bit to justify it. What concrete actions have you taken with respect to your DH yo address your issues - or did this become a bigger issue when you met someone else who turned you on? I don’t see how the “once or twice a year” with the other guy would make your life so much better that it’s worth what you are risking (your marriage, your self-respect, your kids’ respect, your family life, etc.) but do your own risk calculation.  Seems like if it’s only once or twice a year it’s really just about the excitement and self-gratification, not really a substitute for a low sex marriage. Be honest with yourself.[/quote]

So Mr Take-me-now does not have a family in that sense - he’s a bit older, one grown child and a wife living in another country. He could be lying of course but his view is that it’s a civilized arrangement for two people who don’t want to be together but don’t want to divorce for religious reasons.  And yes, I think you’re right - it would be excitement and self indulgence once in a while.  I don’t want to leave the marriage, not at all.  But as I keep telling PPs, I also don’t think it’s possible to change the situation as DH is perfectly content with our life as it is (and yes, I have asked).  Some people, I think it’s fair to say, simply are lower sex drive and probably aging can make it lower still. [/quote]

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