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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You two sit together and make a pact to be intentionally kind, fair and helpful. No keeping scores, just try to be a good team.[/quote] DP. Yeah, tried that. Just does not work with someone with weak executive function. Structure works. Good intentions do not. [/quote] Good intentions make all the difference, structure only helps execute them. Unless one understands and feels genuinely concerned about unfairly overburdening their partner, nothing would change.[/quote] Fine. Good intentions alone are not anywhere near enough. You can’t just ask both parties to do their best and not “keep score” (set up structure and accountability) when the status quo is this unfair. [/quote]
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