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[quote=Anonymous]We have a similar situation, but less $ involved. DS #1 went to in state school and we paid everything for @$150K. DS #2 went to Service Academy, so no cost at all. We do not intend to give DS #2 the equivalent we saved and he does not expect it. We did offer to help with grad school in the future, but he may do that on the military's dime also. We will hang on to the $ and maybe divide it between future grandchildren if they come. DH and I were totally in synch on this decision. You can never be, nor should you try to be, completely fair with spending. Life expenses will be different - weddings, grandchildren, vacations, emergencies. It seems very transactional to tally up the differences. [/quote]
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