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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There is a weird cohort that dominates the DCUM college board. The "Top 10 for a computer science degree that gives you a 6 figure income by 22 or you're wasting your money" crowd. I don't know any of them in real life. We don't come from money and we had to earn every cent we have. We're currently middle class by DCUM standards and upper middle class by any other standard. We (and everyone we know in real life---and this is a large cross section of professional class people--engineers, teachers, doctors, CEOs, nurses, etc) all have some money saved for college. We believe in paying for a 4 year degree. We don't need that degree to be from Harvard or UVA. We don't need it to be in computer science or pre-med. We are committed to paying that money for our kid's college experience... whatever that might turn out to be. We will pay what we can for Harvard or Vanderbilt or Temple or Tennessee or SCAD or Berklee. We won't consider our kids to be a failure or their life "off track" if they're not pulling down 6 figures by age 22. We won't be surprised if they switch directions or careers 4 times by age 30. We view life as a journey and our children's lives as something that we ultimately don't much (if any) have control over. [/quote] I never stated it had to be one of those schools. My one DC goes to UMD, and we're thrilled about it. You are the one who thinks that I'm saying it's T10 or nothing. That is absolutely not what I'm saying. And no where did I state that a college grad is a failure unless they are making six figures at 22. Again you are taking that to extremes. But, there's a balance. I have a younger DC who is probably a B to B+ student. DC may not get into UMD. Maybe they will get into UMBC or Towson. I would be good with that. Or, if they really wanted UMD, go to community college then transfer. But, I would not pay OOS or full pay private for a middling university. That's a dumb financial move. [/quote]
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