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[quote=Anonymous]And mom likely had something happen to her or in her family that warped her perceptions, incest often is a multigenerational pattern in families. OP may not be the only one that SF assaulted as a child and he continues to assault and push boundaries to this day. OP's B shows no actions consistent with breaking the family patterns, staying there with kids, etc. SIL's OWN parents are FRIENDS with SF and enabling mom. I too, wish it was different, OP. Unfortunately you can only control yourself. B and SIL's parents do not want to change their behavior or call out SF. So your words won't change that. And they may not keep kids or SILs. safe from him. Do what you need to do to live with that ugly truth. You may want to go low or no contact with the entire unhealthy group. It is almost impossible not to become frantic with the need to try to change the dynamic. But you don't hold the power cards in the group. It's like an enmeshed cult. [/quote]
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