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[quote=Anonymous]What if the answer to your question re: steps is "none?"

I think getting support to cope with that answer is going to do more than trying to change his behavior, esp given the involvement of his ILs, etc. It's not likely to change, as you acknowledge. So that anxiety that you are hoping he will sooth with words needs to be managed by you, and you know what his actions have been, to visit, stay there with kids and avoid talking to you about it.

I truly hope those children stay safe from predators, including SF. Being around SF and his behavior is grooming of everyone there, normalizing breaking of boundaries and norms. Learning that all the other adults act like it's ok. Learning not to say anything. SIL's parents are part of that group, choose to participate in the socializing.

If you do have contact with the kids at least you can impart a different message but I'm not sure you will be able to manage your anxiety around them. I'm so very sorry. You are far from alone. Unfortunately. [/quote]

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