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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They’ve been here for 
almost an hour now.  I’m hungry.  I’m thirsty.  They didn’t tell us they were visiting.  I’m really annoyed.[/quote]

Grow up.  [/quote]

Found the rude, pushy in-law.[/quote]

DP here, and I'm not a pushy in-law of anyone yet. But seriously, why can't she just say, Hello! Great to see you. I'm exhausted and am going to grab something to eat then crash, but so happy you're getting to catch up with DH. They might then leave! As is, it is clear you don't want to see them, which is insulting and the fact it they are your DH's parents.

So, yes, grow up.[/quote]

Answer: She doesn't want to. And she is not required to do so. And that is a valid position.

Do you routinely show up unannounced and sit around someone else's house? Because, that's rude af. [/quote]

Some of you are really just looking for reasons to be upset. These aren't random people. These are the parents of her husband. [/quote]

Yes, and? It was still rude of them to say they were coming by for a very quick errand, and to park it on the couch, acting as if they are owed entertainment by tired parents with a baby. I would never do that, not to my siblings, not to my parents, not to my kids.

If you want to come over for a visit, you ask. You don’t assume, you don’t impose: you ask.[/quote]

Uh no. My parents aren’t visitors

They are my parents and they are welcome in my house whenever

Thsts called family

Sad you don’t have that [/quote]

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